Dating the divorced man book

14-Oct-2017 09:55

We Face Timed just to get to know each other a little better before we met up and afterwards he asked me if I was still interested? The next day he asked if I wanted to come meet him when he got home from work. He was very caring made sure I got there OK made sure I was comfortable while I was there. Before I even met him he would include me in all his future ideas and speak to me as if he was already going to date me.. But if for some reason after a few dates if we didn’t hit it off or feel the same about each other, he would still remain friends with me. The next day after meeting I didn’t hear from him which I didn’t expect too because he had the kids and it was Father’s Day.

He did have the kids, but they would be asleep by the time I got there. I sent him a nice message for Father’s Day and he thanked me and told me he was sorry for not texting.

I feel like we connected and have the same beliefs and common interests.

In this post I’m going to explain what I call, “Newly Divorced Man Syndrome – I hope you haven’t run into this but if you have, this will help you figure out what happened. He took the initiative and we started chatting/texting immediately.

I told him if he ever needed to vent I would be here for him and he replied with thank you. He hasn’t talked to me since, but I’ve seen him post a few things on Facebook.

Dear Missing, I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this, but it sounds like you fell into the “newly divorced man trap.” Of course dating a divorced men is not always like this. Here are some of the clues that indicate you fell into trap to help you with understanding men:1.

So that’s the unfortunate truth about the “Newly Divorced Man Trap” and dating divorced men.It’s a strategy that works all the time with countless unsuspecting women. Think of this like a spider in a web – “Come closer,” the spider says, ” I won’t hurt you, I can really open up and share my feelings with you and we’ll be friends no matter what.”2.Movie Watching – When a man you haven’t met in person yet (or any time early on in dating) asks you to come over and watch a movie, this is “Man Speake” for “let’s get naked.” You’re better off meeting in public places until he pursues you consistently enough that you feel his intentions are to keep seeing you.He was getting the kids ready and has a full day ahead of him but told me to have a great day.I asked him if he was still interested and he said yes are u?

So that’s the unfortunate truth about the “Newly Divorced Man Trap” and dating divorced men.

It’s a strategy that works all the time with countless unsuspecting women. Think of this like a spider in a web – “Come closer,” the spider says, ” I won’t hurt you, I can really open up and share my feelings with you and we’ll be friends no matter what.”2.

Movie Watching – When a man you haven’t met in person yet (or any time early on in dating) asks you to come over and watch a movie, this is “Man Speake” for “let’s get naked.” You’re better off meeting in public places until he pursues you consistently enough that you feel his intentions are to keep seeing you.

He was getting the kids ready and has a full day ahead of him but told me to have a great day.

I asked him if he was still interested and he said yes are u?

Complains about the Ex – When a divorced man complains about his ex a lot upfront, that means he’s not over her. Promise me you’ll NEVER offer to nurse a man back to emotional health over his ex or let him vent to you about her.